Are strange things happening in your life, family, home, or workplace—and you can’t explain the meaning or source of those experiences? You may have wondered if a spirit spouse is behind it.
Well, in this article, you’ll discover the signs and indicators of spirit husbands and wives, and learn how to know if you are affected by a spirit spouse or not.
How to Know You Have A Spirit Spouse: The Signs and Effects of Spirit Wives and Husbands
Before we dive into this topic, let’s find out who a spirit spouse is. As you read this article, you’ll discover so many things you weren’t aware of and certain incidents you overlook or ignore, but that have negative impacts on your life.
You’ll also realize that certain acts and behaviors of yours are the core cause of your nightmares.
Who Is A Spirit Spouse?
Millions of people have become bond slaves of sexual marine spirits, incubus, succubus, perverse spirits, sex demons, spirit husbands, and wives without knowing how they got caught up in the cobweb.
A spirit spouse is an illegal partner that betroths itself, marries you, and claims you as its wife or husband. It fights any human being who attempts to be in love with you. It fights tooth and nail to keep you as its own forever.
The Hidden Bondage of Spirit Spouses
These spirits violate the law of God. God never created spirits to marry human beings. It is rather these spirits that force us to be their spouse.
This act of spirit beings marrying human beings and giving birth to unbalanced children began soon after creation, and it has continued to our time.
Therefore, every individual must be vigilant to avoid becoming a victim.
The Book of Genesis gave us an account of how this unlawful or forbidden act began: “Now it came to pass, when men began to multiply on the face of the earth, and daughters were born to them, that the sons of God saw the daughters of men, that they were beautiful; and they took wives for themselves of all whom they chose.
And the Lord said, “My Spirit shall not strive with man forever, for he is indeed flesh; yet his days shall be one hundred and twenty years.” There were giants on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of men and they bore children to them. Those were the mighty men who were of old, men of renown. Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually.” (Genesis 6:1-5 NKJV)
The Hidden Source of Pain and Strange Experiences
When these sex demons of the night get into your life, you will encounter all sorts of pains, sufferings, problems, and troubles.
Many people are facing all kinds of troubles and problems in their lives, but have no clue about what or who is the cause of their nightmares.
Finding the cause of a problem is half the battle in solving it.
Therefore, it is necessary to know what or who is the cause of the pains you have been going through and the strange things that are happening in your life.
Most of these pains and strange things happening to you may be the cause of a sex demon, perverse spirit, spirit husband or wife, sexual marine spirit, succubus, or an incubus spirit present in your life.
The Bondage of Spirit Spouses and the Path to Freedom
When these evil spirits have sexual intercourse with you, you will have spirit children (demonic offspring) with them in the spiritual realm, unknowingly, or perhaps you may know through your dreams.
One thing you should know is that whether you are the demon’s wife or the husband, you are the one to provide for these spirit children, and sometimes your spirit spouse or partner as well — you pay for all spiritual expenses with your physical wealth or money.
Yes, you heard me right. This act on the part of these sex demons shows how wicked they can be to their human spouse, even though they make love to them to satisfy their evil lust.
You become a bondage slave to these marine spirits, sex demons, incubi, and succubus spirits as long as you have not gotten rid of them.
The first thing every individual must do is to know if he or she has a spirit spouse or is a victim of a sex demon.
🔑 Take the Next Step to Your Freedom
If what you’ve just read sounds familiar—if you’ve been experiencing strange dreams, unexplained setbacks, or constant disappointments—don’t ignore the signs. Spirit spouses and sex demons thrive in secrecy, but freedom comes when you expose and confront them.
You don’t have to fight this battle alone. Book a one-on-one deliverance session with me today, and together we will break every chain, silence every demonic voice, and destroy the covenant that spirit spouses have made with your life.
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How to Know You Have or Are a Victim of a Spirit Spouse
There are many ways to know you have or are a victim of a spiritual spouse. From my experience and from people I have delivered through my Experience Deliverance program, the following are the true ways to know you have or are a victim of a spirit spouse or sex demon:
1. Frequent Sex in Dreams
One of the clearest signs of bondage to spirit spouses is repeated sexual encounters in dreams. These demons — incubus, succubus, sexual marine spirits, and other sex demons of the night — often appear using familiar or unfamiliar faces. They may take on the likeness of your husband, wife, parent, sibling, friend, or even a stranger.
Why They Do This
- Deception through disguise: These spirits are masters of trickery. They hide behind the faces of loved ones to make the act seem natural or harmless.
- Manipulation of trust: By appearing as family or close friends, they plant confusion, guilt, and distrust in your relationships.
- Defilement: Sexual intercourse in dreams is not an innocent experience; it is a spiritual violation, a covenant with demons.
If you’ve ever woken up troubled after such encounters, understand this: it is not normal and certainly not God-ordained intimacy. It is a demonic scheme to enslave your soul, contaminate your body, and sabotage your destiny.
What This Means for You
Frequent sex in dreams is not just a bad dream — it is a spiritual marriage covenant in action. The more it happens, the deeper the spirit spouse strengthens its hold on your life. This can lead to:
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Marital delays or breakdowns
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Infertility or miscarriages
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Sicknesses linked to the sexual organs
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Financial hardship and relationship conflicts
“For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.” (Ephesians 6:12 NKJV)
The Way Out
If you’ve been experiencing frequent sex in your dreams, you need more than just prayers of comfort — you need deliverance. These covenants must be broken, and your soul set free.
🔥 Don’t let these demons keep stealing from your life. Book a one-on-one deliverance session with me today, or get my book Total Deliverance from Spirit Wives and Husbands: How to Get Rid of Sex Demons of the Night to begin your journey of self-deliverance.
2. Marriage in a Dream
Dreams of marriage can often feel exciting or hopeful, but not all of them are from God. Whenever you see yourself wedded to a man or woman in a dream, don’t quickly assume it is a good sign of a godly marriage coming your way. In the spiritual realm, such a dream often reveals that you have made a spiritual marriage covenant with a sex demon, also known as a spirit husband or spirit wife.
A spiritual marriage in the dream realm is a binding covenant. Just as earthly marriages involve vows, promises, and a union between two people, so it is in the spiritual. However, in this case, the covenant is unlawful and demonic. These spirit beings claim ownership of you as their spouse and will fight to keep you bound to them, often sabotaging your real-life relationships.
How It Manifests in Life
- Relationship Failures: You may notice that no matter how promising a relationship looks, it suddenly collapses without clear reasons. Spirit spouses cause confusion, misunderstandings, or sudden coldness in your partner.
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Delayed Marriages: Many people who dream of weddings repeatedly remain single for years. This delay is because the spirit spouse is blocking any human from marrying you.
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Disappointments at the Altar: Some people reach the point of engagement or wedding preparations, only to have everything fall apart at the last minute. This is often the work of a jealous spirit spouse.
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Strange Spiritual Battles: You may face constant attacks at the edge of breakthrough, including financial setbacks, rejection, or unexplained hatred from others.
Why It Is Dangerous
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Spirit spouse ties your destiny to demonic control.
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It transfers spiritual poverty, oppression, and curses into your life.
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Spirit spouse blocks your God-ordained spouse from reaching you.
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It can open the door for sickness, barrenness, and confusion in your life.
Let me share this story with you.
A True Life Story
Naomi was a young woman who often dreamed of herself in a wedding gown, walking down the aisle with a man she had never met. At first, she thought it was a good sign—that marriage was on the way. But year after year, relationships came and went. Men showed interest, but suddenly lost it without reason. Twice she was engaged, and both times everything collapsed at the very last minute.
Behind the scenes, Naomi’s destiny was under attack. In the spirit realm, she had unknowingly entered into a covenant with a spiritual spouse—a demon claiming her as its wife. That “wedding in the dream” was not a blessing but a binding contract.
Just as Naomi discovered, what looks like a sweet dream may actually be a trap designed to keep you bound, lonely, and frustrated.
The Way Out
Naomi only found freedom when she recognised the source of her battles and sought deliverance. Through prayer, fasting, and breaking covenants in the name of Yahshua the Messiah (Jesus Christ), she was loosed from that demonic marriage. Soon after, God restored her life and opened the door for her real, God-ordained husband.
Recognising such a dream is the first step. You must then renounce the covenant made in that dream through prayer, fasting, and deliverance. Reject the demonic wedding ring, gown, or covenant presented to you in the spirit. Call upon the blood of Yahshua (Jesus) to break that unholy marriage and declare your freedom from every spirit spouse.
✨ If you keep dreaming of marriage, wearing wedding rings, or being wedded in the spirit realm—don’t take it lightly. Book a personal deliverance session today and break free from every unholy covenant, so you can step into the marriage and destiny God truly has for you.
3. Being Pregnant in a Dream
Dreams of pregnancy may seem positive at first glance, but in the spiritual realm, they can carry a very different meaning. When you see yourself pregnant in a dream, it is often a sign that you are already in covenant with a spirit husband. This means you are carrying his offspring in the spiritual realm, or you are about to give birth to a new demonic life — a spirit child.
Such dreams symbolise deep bondage. Just as pregnancy in the natural world represents growth and the arrival of new life, spiritual pregnancy with a demon represents the growth of oppression, affliction, and greater control over your destiny. The enemy plants these spiritual seeds to drain your strength, block your blessings, and divert your God-given fruitfulness into demonic purposes.
“There were giants on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of men and they bore children to them. Those were the mighty men who were of old, men of renown.” (Genesis 6:4 NKJV)
This scripture shows how fallen spirits once impregnated human women, producing offspring that were never part of God’s plan.
Signs of Spiritual Pregnancy in Real Life
- Constant fatigue or unexplained heaviness, as if you are always carrying a burden.
- Barrenness or miscarriages in the physical realm.
- Strange afflictions or recurring sicknesses in your reproductive system.
- Financial setbacks and unexplainable losses, as resources are spiritually “diverted” to feed demonic offspring.
Why It Is Dangerous
A spirit child is a spiritual assignment meant to tie you permanently to the demon. As long as the demonic seed grows in the spiritual realm, you remain bound, unable to fully walk in freedom or experience your God-ordained blessings.
“The field is the world, the good seeds are the sons of the kingdom, but the tares are the sons of the wicked one.” (Matthew 13:38 NKJV)
This reveals that Satan also plants his own seeds — counterfeit offspring — to oppose the children of God.
🔥 You don’t have to carry this burden another day. If you have ever dreamt of being pregnant in the spirit, it’s time to uproot that seed before it grows. Book your deliverance session with me today and step into the freedom Yahshua (Jesus) has already secured for you.
4. Breastfeeding a Baby in a Dream
Dreams of breastfeeding may appear harmless, even nurturing, but spiritually, they carry a dark meaning. When you see yourself breastfeeding a child in a dream, it often means you are already in covenant with a spirit husband and are now nourishing his offspring — a spirit child.
Breastfeeding in nature is meant to pass life, nutrients, and strength from a mother to her child. But in the spiritual realm, when you feed a demonic baby, you are unknowingly transferring your virtue, health, and destiny into the hands of dark powers.
The Dangers of Breastfeeding a Spirit Child
- Health attacks: Your breast and blood are being drained spiritually, which can manifest physically as breast-related illnesses, including breast cancer or unexplained pains.
- Loss of life-force: Just as milk comes from the mother’s body, a spiritual baby feeding on you takes your life energy, leaving you weak, tired, or sickly.
- Blood sacrifice: Every drop of milk symbolises your blood being sacrificed to demons, feeding them while draining you of your divine strength.
- Destiny hijack: Instead of nurturing God-given fruitfulness, your resources are being stolen to empower demonic agendas.
“The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” (John 10:10 NKJV)
This is why such dreams should never be ignored. What looks like care and motherhood in a dream is actually bondage and sacrifice in disguise.
🔥 If you have ever dreamt of breastfeeding a strange child, it is a red flag of deep demonic entanglement. Don’t allow your health, energy, and destiny to be drained any longer. Book a deliverance session with me today and reclaim the abundant life Yahshua (Jesus) promised you.
5. Lack of Desire for Human Relationships
If you find yourself with no interest in entering a love relationship or no attraction toward the opposite sex, it could be a sign that you are already bound in a spiritual love covenant. A spirit spouse has claimed you, and because of this invisible bond, it will fight fiercely to stop you from loving or being loved by a human partner.
The Effects
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Blocked proposals: A godly man may propose marriage to you, but you will find excuses to reject him.
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Closed hearts: A godly woman may be interested in you, yet she suddenly pulls away without reason.
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Delayed or denied marriage: Many men and women pass the age of 30 or even 40 still unmarried, not because they don’t want to marry, but because a spirit spouse is holding them captive.
Why This Happens
The spirit spouse sees itself as your true husband or wife. It is jealous and possessive, so it ensures you feel no desire for anyone else. By keeping you spiritually “taken,” it prevents you from enjoying the blessings of marriage that God has ordained for you.
“Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” (Mark 10:9 NKJV)
But when a spirit being is the one that has “joined” you to itself, your divine marital destiny is hindered.
The Way Forward
If you’ve lost all desire for relationships, or if marriage proposals keep slipping away mysteriously, it may not be natural. You need deliverance from spiritual marriage covenants so that your heart can be free to love and be loved as God intended.
🔥 Don’t let a spirit being rob you of your joy, marriage, and family life. Book a deliverance session with me today and break free from the bondage of spiritual relationships.
6. Disappointments at the Edge of Marriage
One of the clearest signs of a spiritual spouse at work in your life is experiencing constant disappointments just when marriage is about to happen.
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You may get engaged or enter a serious relationship, but when it’s time to move forward to marriage, everything suddenly collapses.
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Promises of marriage are made, yet they are broken without explanation.
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Wedding plans may even begin, only to be mysteriously cancelled at the last moment.
This is the handiwork of incubus and succubus spirits—demonic beings that act as spiritual husbands and wives. They will not allow you to enjoy a peaceful or godly marriage because they claim ownership over you.
Another Sign
When people are only interested in using your body for sex but have no desire to commit to you in marriage, it is another strong indication that a spirit spouse is sabotaging your relationships. Their influence makes suitors lose genuine interest in marrying you, reducing your value in their eyes to nothing more than a sexual object.
The Spiritual Truth
A spirit spouse is jealous and possessive. It interferes with your love life because it considers you already married in the spirit. That is why every attempt at a godly marriage keeps ending in disappointment.
“The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” (John 10:10 NKJV)
The disappointments are not ordinary—they are a deliberate act of spiritual theft to rob you of the joy and covenant of marriage.
The Way Out
You don’t have to keep experiencing broken engagements, failed relationships, or repeated heartbreaks. Deliverance breaks the chain of manipulation and restores your right to a joyful, lasting marriage.
🔥 Take a stand today. Book a deliverance session with me and break free from the cycle of disappointment and heartbreak.
7. Marital Problems Caused by Spirit Spouses
One of the most destructive signs of a spirit spouse at work is the attack on marriages and relationships. These demonic unions are rooted in jealousy, and their goal is to destroy your God-ordained love life.
A True-to-Life Example
Simon and Juliet were once deeply in love. Their marriage started with joy, laughter, and financial stability. But suddenly, things began to shift.
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Simon lost all interest in Juliet and avoided intimacy with her for no reason.
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Arguments became frequent, even over small issues.
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Their once-thriving family business started collapsing without explanation.
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Every new job opportunity slipped away, and financial stress grew heavier.
The more they tried to fix things on their own, the worse it became. It wasn’t until they sought deliverance that the truth was revealed—a spiritual spouse was behind their loss of affection and financial decline. After prayer and deliverance, their love was restored, and the doors of breakthrough began to open again.
Loss of Affection
If you or your partner has a spirit spouse, one of the first things you will notice is a sudden decline in love and intimacy.
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Sexual desire fades away for no natural reason.
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Couples begin to avoid each other physically and emotionally.
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What once was love and passion may turn into bitterness, arguments, and coldness.
Sometimes this manipulation grows so strong that you may even feel hatred for your spouse without cause. If left unchecked, it can end in separation, divorce, or total collapse of the marriage.
Financial Struggles and Misfortune
Spirit spouses don’t just attack love—they also attack finances and stability.
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After intimacy with your spouse, you may notice sudden financial problems.
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Jobs are lost without explanation.
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Businesses collapse mysteriously.
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Doors of opportunity that should be open shut unexpectedly.
The spirit spouse uses this strategy to turn the human partner into a source of bad luck, causing frustration and despair in the marriage.
The Spirit of Jealousy
These sex demons are extremely possessive. They view your human spouse as a rival and will do everything to remove them. At times, this jealousy can escalate to dangerous levels, where the spirit spouse causes sickness, accidents, or even death to eliminate your partner—leaving the victim as a widow or widower.
“For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.” (Ephesians 6:12 NKJV)
The Way Forward
Marital problems that seem unexplainable are often not ordinary—they are spiritual battles. A spirit spouse seeks to destroy your covenant of marriage, your joy, and your destiny.
Deliverance is the only way to break free from their grip and restore love, peace, and prosperity in your marriage.
🔥 Don’t allow your marriage to be stolen or destroyed. Book a deliverance session today and reclaim your God-given joy and freedom.
8. Irresistible Masturbation
Masturbation may feel private, but spiritually it is a dangerous open door. Each time you engage in it, you create an entry point in your body and soul for sex demons to invade. This is how spiritual spouses gain access and establish their hold over you.
A Sign of Spiritual Bondage
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If you find yourself addicted to masturbation, despite countless efforts to stop, it is a clear sign that you are not in control.
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This repeated failure reveals that you are already enslaved by a spirit spouse.
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What seems like a “harmless habit” is actually a spiritual chain, binding you to lust, shame, and defeat.
👉 “For a man is a slave to whatever has mastered him.” — 2 Peter 2:19
The Hidden Dangers
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Masturbation fuels the appetite of spirit spouses, giving them legal grounds to stay in your life.
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It weakens your spiritual strength, opening you up to further attacks like sexual dreams, failed relationships, and even physical sickness.
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The more you yield to it, the tighter its grip becomes.
👉 “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.” — 1 Corinthians 6:18
The Only Way Out
No amount of willpower or self-help methods can break the cycle, because this is more than a habit—it is spiritual slavery. The only way to break free is through deliverance.
🔥 If you are battling with uncontrollable masturbation, don’t accept it as “normal.” It is a chain meant to destroy your purity, your destiny, and your connection with God. Seek deliverance and reclaim your freedom.
👉 “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36
🚨 Don’t fight this battle alone. If you’re struggling with uncontrollable masturbation or feel trapped by a spirit spouse, now is the time to act. Book a deliverance session with me today and break free from their grip once and for all.
9. Fornication and Prostitution
Falling into fornication or prostitution is not always just a matter of personal weakness — often it is the work of sex demons manipulating your desires. Incubus, succubus, and sexual marine spirits lure men and women into these sins to bind their souls and destroy their destiny.
You may not even enjoy this kind of lifestyle, yet you feel powerless to stop. That constant urge, despite regret afterwards, is evidence of demonic control. “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers…” (Ephesians 6:12).
The Bible warns, “Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body” (1 Corinthians 6:18). Sexual sin opens the door for evil spirits to invade and oppress your life.
If you find yourself giving in to sex for money, attention, or fleeting pleasure, then know you are already under attack. These demons use fornication as a weapon to chain your soul.
👉 Do not remain in their grip. Book a deliverance session with me today and receive freedom through the power of Yahshua the Messiah (Jesus Christ).
👉 If you notice this sign in your life, don’t ignore it. Book a deliverance session with me today or get my book “Total Deliverance from Spirit Wives and Husbands: How to Get Rid of Sex Demons of the Night” to begin your journey to freedom.
Recommended Book to Read
✨ Are you struggling with the grip of a spirit spouse? You don’t have to remain bound another day. My book Total Deliverance from Spirit Wives and Husbands is a step-by-step guide to break every chain and reclaim your freedom.
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To your freedom,
Apostle Anthony Langmartey
Deliverance Minister
“Helping you get deliverance and peace of mind.”
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